The First Month of Van Life: 5 Things They Don’t Tell You (The Hilarious Truth)
You’ve seen the perfect Instagram posts: golden hour, a sleek van parked on a cliff, a cup of artisanal coffee, and a perfectly coiffed human gazing into the sunset. They make van life look like an effortless, beautifully lit movie.
And then you get on the road.
My first month was less “golden hour” and more “panic attack at a gas station.” The dream is real, but so are the hilarious, frustrating, and sometimes terrifying realities. Here are five things they don’t tell you about the first month of van life — and most of it applies just the same to RV life. This is the first part of a two-part post; make sure to read the second part, “Your First Month of Van Life: 5 Actionable Tips,” by clicking here.
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Here are five things (in no particular order) that I learned in my first month on the Road.
1. Will My Van Break? (Spoiler: Yes, It Will)
I don’t care if you bought a brand new Winnie straight off the lot or a vintage conversion with “character.” Something is going to go wrong, and it’s probably going to happen sooner than you think. My Winnebago Revel is still so fresh the new car smell has barely even faded, and it’s already on its fourth trip back to the dealer for repairs.
The good news? The universe is just testing you. It’s a rite of passage. You’ll learn more about your rig’s plumbing and electrical systems in that first month than you ever thought possible. You will become intimately familiar with the names of every part in the manual and you’ll find yourself Googling things like “why won’t my water pump shut off?” at 3 AM. Plus – I’ve been told by many folks that the first year is the worst for repairs. After you get all the “kinks” out – things get a lot smoother. Why there are kinks in a vehicle with a sticker over a quarter mil is beyond me…. But hey – it’s just the way it is! (Do yourself a favor and budget for that first repair bill — more on the money in my $5,000 of purchases I regret.)
2. Everything Takes Longer in a Van. I Can’t Tell You Why.
I swear there’s a mysterious force field that slows down time when you live in a van or RV. A three-hour drive? Plan for five. You’ll stop for gas more often (and a lot more nervously when the low fuel light comes on). You’ll hunt for a decent shower. You’ll become a master of efficiency, trying to find a Planet Fitness next to a laundromat so you can get clean and do laundry at the same time. (There’s actually a name for this — I call it the Nomadic Time Tax. Here’s the whole theory on why your GPS always lies.)
And you will spend an inordinate amount of time planning. Everything. From finding water and dump stations to mapping out meals, every detail requires thought. If you want to do the cool stuff, you have to plan way, way in advance. Want to stay in a campsite in Yellowstone? Better nab that one a year out. My daily itinerary for six months from now is already locked down so I can get into the national parks that everyone wants to see.
3. The Systems Are Not Always Intuitive (And Sometimes Lie).
The manual is a suggestion, not a law. You will have to learn your rig’s systems by doing, which often means by messing them up. I once fully discharged my chassis battery because I accidentally turned off alternator charging for the house battery. Luckily, I was at a campground where a kind RVer was able to help me. I wasn’t in the middle of nowhere, which is a lesson for my next point.
You’ll discover that what the manufacturer says the system is going to do is not always what it actually does. For instance, my lithium battery system had its own unique personality that took some time to understand. So much so that the screen lies: what it says it’ll do when you hit the button isn’t always what it actually does!! Don’t be afraid to experiment (safely!) and ask other van lifers and RVers for advice.
4. The Highs and Lows Are Extreme.
So for folks who have followed my channel or come to know me – you know I take mental health very seriously. In fact, part of the reason I got into this life was to have better mental health.
Van or RV life isn’t a steady stream of happiness. It’s a rollercoaster of pure, unadulterated bliss and moments of sheer, existential dread. (I go deep on that mental side in Van Life Expectations vs. Reality.)
I had moments of bliss sitting by myself, watching the sunset over the Rio Grande in Big Bend. But I also had moments of fear when my van wouldn’t start, and I questioned every single life decision that led me to that spot.
The fear is real, but so is the profound sense of accomplishment when you fix a problem, navigate a tricky situation, or just sit in quiet awe of your surroundings. Those moments of bliss far outweigh the moments of panic. And loneliness can start to creep up on you. That’s why I wrote an Article on Why my Strategy, BaseCamp Thousand Trails is such a great strategy for Van Lifers. Click here to Read How a Thousand Trails Membership can help you manage some of the difficult emotions that come with Van Life.
5. You Will Become a Master Planner of Fun.
The planning you do isn’t just about survival; it’s about maximizing the fun. Want an efficient route to hit all the best mountain bike parks? That’s not something you can wing. I’m usually planning my routes and destinations 6-8 months in advance, all based on weather, trail conditions, and what I want to ride. The payoff is that I get to experience the amazing places and trails that everyone else only dreams about. It’s hard work, but the reward is unforgettable.
I’ve written a whole post — okay, a few — on exactly how I plan trips. From ChatGPT to Recreation.gov and OnXmaps, I lean on a whole stack of tools — because I’m always planning. Here’s the system:
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